Relationship?

Just read through a friend's blog, she quoted.."i wonder why some couples can break so easily. didn't they feel the pain? "

Well, i think there are a few possible reasons why people break up... First..the sad truth is they fall OUT of love from each other. Perhaps complications in their relationship has made them fail to cherish the love they once had before. Like when married couples learn more about each other...when responsibilities come in and they fail to commit to each other. I guess, that's when the "once" fiery passion to each other is no longer there because they have so many other things to worry about. Food, family, kids (if they have), work, friends... Bills?

And that is why...couples are so blinded with their everyday routine that they take each other for granted.

Secondly, inability to commit to each other fully. Like the popular series of "Desparate housewives"... Nowadays, people are so easily attracted to opposite sex ..well in some cases..same sex.. Perhaps that is why long relationship RARELY lasts..Because it's very hard to commit entirely to each other when they want each other soooooo badly but they are separated by millions of miles apart. So, they choose the next best option. Look for someone who is "PHYSICALLY" there. Thanks to skype many LDR lasted but...this is only applicable to couples who have reached the "mutual understanding towards each other stage"..whereby they trust what their respective partners are doing and work on the relationship together.

Thirdly...why? maybe because they had enough of each other and decided that they just don't fit each other and they are better off with someone else. Nowadays, people tend to rush into a relationship because they are attracted to the person at first sight...and claimed that this is "love at first sight" (ps- this normally happens in advertisements..like darlie... mcdonald...cornetto ice cream...) Heh..love is so profound. How can you show love to a stranger when u just met 0.1 seconds ago when u can't even love ur siblings or parents u've known through your entire life? So..after dating...they found out what is nice is just the wrapper... so... i guess...that's how ppl end up breaking up and find another. Ever heard of "trial and error"? I think, this applies to humans as well.

Anyway, i'm really sorry if I'm abit harsh in this post. I guess, this just struck me.
The pain is excruciating, it's like someone took your heart and squeezed out every blood that fills it. And give it back to you. Perhaps they kept experiencing this..that breaking up is no longer as painful as throwing mean words to each other. Saying things that they don't mean. Making a big fight out of small things. I guess they are numb as they had enough of enduring the sharp pangs piercing through their hearts each time they fight so..the best option is to end everything...once and for all. Like plucking a bad tooth.

... so..to me...sometimes breaking up...might be a good or perhaps the best solution.....